For the reality date it would probably entail a beverage of some kind, possibly eating and maybe a hug.

For my fantasy it would be:

Meeting and knowing at first site that things are great.
Then having that beverage and talking about everything from a-z.
Not noticing the time and we have been there for a few hours
Not wanting to leave each other we head to the parking lot to kiss and hug a bit.
Then deciede that we both want to know each other a bit more.
He/I wisks me/him away for a night and a day of nothing but getting to know each other more.

That people are not whom they perseive themselves to be. There is also a country western song about you can be anyone you want to be on my space. But it goes with the dating sites also. There is only one problem with that and it is that you get to meet them one day. Silly people any how!

My children and grandchildren, my health and having fun every day.

My perfect day would be that no one would whine or be a grouch at work. We have MS whiney and Ms Grouch.

That my children and grandchildren and everyone that I love and care about would make it through the day with no issues.