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Last Login: Apr 28, 2012
I am a happily single gal thinking it might be time to enjoy life again with a great guy by my side. My desert heart is a regional love not my own heart! I can be generous to a fault, too independent for some, roll-your-eyes witty, and hold an opinion based on facts, not conjecture and speculation (but not brassy; just enjoy stimulating conversation without being argumentive). My born again status is not of pentacostal religion nor highly charismatic but rather of knowing who I am in Christ and Christ in me. My life is relatively simple and I am financially secure. Enough of me--what am I looking for? I'd have to say my standards are high but not unrealistic: a guy who knows the difference between being a leader and being a boss. Someone who can love without smothering. Mutual respect and edification. Oh, not to mention maybe occasional flowers! A smile over coffee, a mentor and a friend. Loyal. Trustworthy. It would be great to have a travel companion again!
|Location||Hot Springs Village, AR, USA|
|Height||5' 4" (162 cm)|
|About Children||Ask me|
|Field of Work||retired and loving it|
|Ethnicity||Caucasian / White|
|Music||Classic Rock, Jazz, Soft Rock|
|Movie||Action/Adventure, Mystery, Suspense/Thriller|
|Outdoor activity||Birdwatching, Camping/Hiking/Fishing, Gardening, Horseback riding, Traveling/Sightseeing|
|Indoor activity||Cooking/Culinary arts, Reading|
|My idea of a great trip||regional, national, international--it's all good!|
|Food||American, Barbeque, Greek, Italian, Jewish/Kosher, Mediterranean, Mexican, Persian, Seafood, Vegetarian/Vegan|
|Favorite restaurants||really good Mexican and bistro style|
|Schools attended||Ventura College; University of Texas at Austin|
|Timeliness||I am usually early|
|As for fashion||I don't care about the latest fashions|
|Age||Between 56 and 66 years old|
|Height||Between 4' 4" (132 cm) and 6' 4" (193 cm)|
|Body Type||Average, I should maybe lose a few, Large but muscular|
|Relationship Status||Divorced, Widowed|
|Ethnicity||Caucasian / White|
Coffee and conversation or lunch in the park; go to a museum or community event
Patience and forgiveness is vital to peace in the house. Because I am a strong person I thrive best in a relationship where my man is stronger, but in good ways, where we both can grow and thrive and be supportive of each other.
Seeking the mind of Christ so that my actions reflect his love in all my relationships--an ongoing journey. I have been blessed with great kids, grandkids, a loving albeit distant family, a great country to explore despite the turmoil she's in, and good health to enjoy each day!
Every "Today", with all the good that's in it, and strength and courage to face any difficulty that crosses my path. Like having to get the leak fixed in the roof this week and now the hot water heater is out but you know what? It was a spectacular June-in-March day, with butterflies, birds, and beautiful blooms everywhere and I refuse to let the inconveniences steal my joy!
My heart and my brain are sometimes at odds with each other. Sometimes I need a gentle nudge to get out of an analytical and highly focused mode and get in touch with my softer creative side which I prefer and am much happier on that side of the fence!