Is this trip necessary? Women know what they are looking for and why. Men tend to something they are not.
They are show offs, try to be clever and in general a waste of time. Women want to know what you really
know and how in this great world you will provide a home, food and a good life for the family he will be
responsible for the rest of their lives.

Well its just like picking out your fruit and vegetables at the store. You want the best you can get because you are going to keep it for the rest of your life. You know what you want and need so don't give up until
your sure you have found it. Ask lots of questions and try to keep a smile on your face at all times. I'm to
old to get married but its very nice to be able to talk to a women as well as a dog or any other critter.
If you ever need some help or advice let me know. With a wife and 4 daughters I got lots of training.

I learned working on the farm and in school that women where smarter then boys/men. God made them that way and he knew what he was doing. They have a lot more things to do in life then men. I found that I would rather work with them on any project in the fields, school, college and business. Why ? They want to do it right the first time. They look at it in different ways then men. Men tend to look for short cuts, do -overs and take more time. Smart men are nice but try to be to clever at times.

I often wonder what God really wants me to be doing. My whole life to date has been unbelievable. It started
with a great Mother and Father. They and my Teachers both women and men were real teachers of subjects and life and work to come. I was raised on farms so we learned the need and value of our work and the words "do it right the first time". My life time occurred where I was able to ride the crest of changes as they
developed. What I learned & understood today I could apply tomorrow.

I don't know that I have ever had one. I can say that up to date I have enjoyed my life on earth. I hope that
I will get to see and be involved in things that will help all our lives to be better. We can do it but we must all do it together. Laughter is very necessary in all our lives. It is free like our love of one another. We just
need more of it.

There is an old saying that "you are what you were when". It means that you are the person who developed
during your age between about 2 to 19. So if you will go back to that time period (years) and research what
your mother and father were doing based on what was going on in their lives, where they were at, what was
going on in that farm area, town, country and world, You will gain some idea as to why you think and act
the way you have in your life to date.