I would like for her to choose the time and place so that she will feel comfortable. She could even bring a friend if it would make her feel more secure. I have 4 lovely sisters, Their Motto " Safety in numbers".
A light lunch would be nice for a start. If athletically active, miniature golf could be interesting.

I am financially secure, retired Air Force member. I am still socially active with the Moose, Elks, A.Legion and Eagles. I like to dance and am good at it (so I have been told). I am in fairly good health, I like to cook and cleaning up keeps my hands soft. I live with my unmarried son and rent out my own place. I consider cleaning the pool as exercise and not a chore. I like to talk, laugh and live. I work on old cars ride a bicycle, still play with Model Trains, Trim our fruit trees, do my own yard work. I am allergic to cats, I drive a Pick Up truck, I will not relocate out of the Phoenix Area. I abhor vulgar crude language and actions. A trip to a Casino can be enjoyable, once in a while.
Just existing is a not a way of life.

"Mirror, Mirror, on the Wall" is a fairy Tale. What you see is not what you get. Many a book with a fancy cover has a lousy story. A pretty label on a box or menu has no effect oh how it will taste. Until you meet someone face to face, look into their eyes and listen to the sound of their voice should you make any kind of decision. Be honest, be faithful, be generous, be sincere, be yourself. If you are acting, it will show up sooner or later.

I was raised in a loving family environment. I still have four Beautiful sisters to share my love with.
My Faith which is my conscience of my actions, deeds, relationships.
My health which enables me to enjoy the fruits of my labors.
The choice of careers that allowed me to be financially secure.

Do something productive, get some exercise, have a good laugh and go to bed with a clear conscience.
Not gain any weight.
Much better if shared in a RELATIONSHIP.

Hollering and arguments are not of my temperament. I am a Libra, a peacemaker.
If you are overweight, out of shape and cannot dance for 2 hours a night, please do not wink/e mail me.
I am a Clan Historian and am on the computer 2 to 4 hours a day.
I do amateur Astrology for my friends and family.