I would like to meet someplace where it's not obvious we're meeting for the first time. Also, if not interested, please just tell me and don't make me wait for you to call me again. And I do understand that goes both ways so I'll always try to be honest and kind. Asking for a second date at the end of the first meeting would be so refreshing, if that's what we'd decide on. You don't get anything if you don't ask.

Let's see, how do you answer this without feeling like you're boasting. I'm a happy person and I feel I would make you feel comfortable and hopefully want to see me again. I will be honest, too, and will let you know if the feeling is mutual.

Good things I've learned is to be honest, be kind, be a little flirty but tasteful and listen....to show someone you are actually interested in what they're saying. See if it's "all me" conversations. Is HE interested in me or just himself. Does he show a hidden underlying temper. If so, I'm gone. I guess that's not really a good thing but it's an important thing.

My children and my health and being kind to others. Always 'pay it forward'.

No where specific to go, nothing specific to do...just go with the flow and if I'm at the beach, all the better.

My age is NOT chronological. I'm much younger than the numbers. I don't like old men. I have nothing in common with men more than 10 years my junior so won't even waste yours AND MY time. Even tho' I have wonderful kids and at present, I reside with my twin boys (or they with me) it's not natural to be alone. I've been so busy I've been without a mate for years and years and years....and I'm sooo ready to have a good man in my life that JUST WANTS ME.