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Last Login: Feb 28, 2013
I am a widow of two years.My husband died of cancer. We were happily married for 49 years. I am a quiet introvert. I like movies,gardening, birdwatching, road trips, eating out at all kinds of places; do not like large parties, loud music; I"m looking for an enthusiastic person who has a zest for life, is straightforward and even outspoken but kind and gentle.
|Location||Oceanside, CA, USA|
|Height||5' 3" (160 cm)|
|About Children||I have children and do NOT want more|
|Field of Work||retired|
|Ethnicity||Caucasian / White|
|Music||Classical, Country/Western, Movie Soundtracks, Oldies, Rock n Roll|
|Favorite bands and musicians||Paul McCartney, Elton John, Willy Nelson,|
|Movie||Comedy, Horror, Musical, Mystery, Romance, Suspense/Thriller|
|Favorite movies and actors||actors: Colin FIrth,Johnny Depp, Steve Martin Movies: The King All That Jazz, Mama Mia, Harry Potter|
|Favorite TV shows||American Idol, Harry's Law, Who do you think you are?, Once upon a time|
|Outdoor activity||Birdwatching, Gardening, Traveling/Sightseeing|
|Indoor activity||Collecting, Games, Movies/TV, Music, Opera/Theater, Reading, Restaurants|
|My idea of a great trip||Road trip anywhere in the United States|
|Food||American, Chinese, German, Mexican, Southwestern|
|Favorite restaurants||local restaurants, Vigiucci's, Mimi's, Applebees, Elephant Bar. Fish House Vera Cruz|
|Schools attended||U. of Alberta, Carleton, Sheridan College|
|Timeliness||I am usually early|
|As for fashion||I dress to be comfortable|
|Age||Between 70 and 80 years old|
|Distance||Within 50 miles of Oceanside, CA, USA|
|Height||Between 5' 5" (165 cm) and 6' 3" (190 cm)|
|Body Type||Slender, Washboard, Athletic, Average, I should maybe lose a few, I'll tell you later|
|Education||High School, Technical School, Associate degree, Professional degree, College Sophomore, College Junior, Bachelor's degree, Master's degree|
|Relationship Status||Divorced, Widowed|
|Religion||Agnostic, Anglican, Atheist, Catholic, Christian, Interdenominational, Hindu, Lutheran, Methodist, Presbyterian, Protestant, Unitarian Universalist, I'm not affiliated with any religion, I'm not religious, Other|
|Ethnicity||Caucasian / White|
|Drinking||Rarely, On occasion|
The first meeting shouldn't classify as a date - just coffee or lunch. The first actual date would depend on what the two of us decide. It could maybe be a movie or a play &/or a casual dinner.
I have learned that one needs to live life minute by minute.I think that one should not expect too much or too little in advance from any situation but take it as it comes, experience it, and not judge. People are interesting, each in his or her own way.Also,I've learned to be more open about what I want rather than always defer to another's wishes.
My children and two grandchildren rank right up there at the top of importance. My dog is my companion and friend. Traveling and seeing new places, especially of historical interest, are important.
A perfect day for me would be a drive to a nearby small town that has places to visit such as a local historical or art museum or antique malls or gardens and to explore the town, have a leisurely late lunch at a local restaurant either outside or inside and a drive home by a different route if available.
I'm not into many sports. I watch some baseball. I like to go to baseball games a couple of times a season if the seats are good. I do like horse races.