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Last Login: Oct 27, 2013
First, I should say that I am only here looking for friends. I was widowed at 43, and remarried 7 years later, but am happily divorced now. I have found that I must bring my own happiness into relationships.. not expect anyone else to provide happiness for me.
I plan to do a lot of travel this spring/summer, so probably won't pay for membership... I'm sorry that I can't respond to your notes.. but I won't be online often until I'm home this fall. That doesn't mean that I don't enjoy your smiles and cards..
I am looking for someone who is easy going, optimistic, and doesn't need to prove anything to anyone. I prefer being active to watching tv, like to read and study new things, I like to play piano, garden, write poetry. I am now writing a children's book. I enjoy time spent alone, and time with friends.
I hope to meet someone who finds happiness within himself, and who enjoys being as active as I do. It is important to me that if an issue comes up, we sit down and talk it over quietly - I am not into arguing for making up's sake...(or for any other reason)
I am an incurable optimist, adventurous and happy. I am a little cautious and in no hurry to find the next love of my life - but I still believe in soul mates - mine is out there...
I am open to friendship, but I am very selective about taking things any further. I believe that having the RIGHT relationship is much more important than having A relationship. Until I find it, I am perfectly happy with things the way they are!
Above all, right now, I am looking for friendship, open to what happens next but in NO rush whatsoever.
|Location||Palmdale, CA, USA|
|Height||5' 6" (167 cm)|
|About Children||I have children and do NOT want more|
|Field of Work||Executive Asst./ HR|
|Ethnicity||Caucasian / White|
|Languages Spoken||English, Other|
|Self-description||I am smart, fun loving, and happy.|
|Music||Classical, Classic Rock, Contemporary, Country/Western, Heavy Metal, Hip Hop, Jazz, Oldies, Opera, Pop/Top 40, Rock n Roll, Soft Rock, Soul/Rhythm and Blues, World|
|Favorite bands and musicians||I love the Beatles, Eric Clapton, MCR, Linkin Park, Fall Out Boy, System of a Down, so many more...|
|Movie||Action/Adventure, Comedy, Documentary, Drama, Foreign Films, Musical, Romance|
|Favorite movies and actors||I love the Wedding Date, Bridget Jones Diary any of the Harry Potters - just no horror/slasher types|
|Favorite TV shows||to be most honest, I hardly ever watch tv...Monk, Most Haunted, Castle, Mythbusters|
|Outdoor activity||Automobiles/Motorcycles, Birdwatching, Gardening, Horseback riding, Photography, Running, Snow Skiing/Snowboarding, Surfing, Swimming, Traveling/Sightseeing, Water Skiing/Windsurfing|
|Indoor activity||Art, Charity/Volunteering, Computers, Cooking/Culinary arts, Dancing, Games, Movies/TV, Music, Opera/Theater, Politics, Reading, Restaurants|
|My idea of a great trip||White water rafting on the Kern River with my 3 sons and my daughter - we go every year|
|Food||American, Barbeque, Caribbean/Cuban, Chinese, European, French, German, Greek, Italian, Japanese, Jewish/Kosher, Korean, Mediterranean, Mexican, Persian, Seafood, Thai, Vietnamese|
|Favorite restaurants||I like to find little local places|
|Timeliness||I am usually early|
|As for fashion||I dress to be comfortable|
|Age||Between 50 and 64 years old|
|Height||Between 5' 9" (175 cm) and 6' 6" (198 cm)|
|Education||I'll tell you later|
|Relationship Status||Single - never been married, Divorced, Widowed|
|Religion||Agnostic, Anglican, Atheist, Bahai, Baptist, Born Again, Buddhist, Catholic, Christian, Confucian, Interdenominational, Jewish, Lutheran, Methodist, Mormon/Latter-day Saint, Orthodox, Pagan/Wiccan/Umbanda, Presbyterian, Protestant, Taoist, Unitarian Universalist, I'm not affiliated with any religion, I'm not religious, Other|
|Ethnicity||Asian, Caucasian / White, Native American, Pacific Islands, Other|
No pressure! I just like going somewhere quiet to talk. There is a great drive in where we used to go hang out. Nothing fancy - (not for a first date!) Not unless it is what my date wants.
I would be good with breakfast somewhere, a flea market, or farmer's market, browsing antique stores or book stores.
I love to make the people around me happy. I have a good sense of humor, and love to laugh! Life is just better when it is shared. I don't need anyone else to make me happy, I bring my own happiness with me wherever I go.
What's new in my life? Well, the nest is finally empty - my daughter will be starting her Junior year in college, majoring in civil engineering and physics. I'm very proud, and now beginning a new chapter in my life.... we'll see where that takes me!
I have learned to tell my loved ones that I love them often... you never know when the time may come that you won't get another chance. I've learned to not hold back...
My kids and grandkids and family. The environment. Good health. Having someone to share my heart with. I am a spiritual person, studying philosophy, morality, trying to make myself a better person...
I love the person that I am, and the one that I am becoming!
A day with the people I love. We could do almost anything...visit a museum, window shop, picnic in the mountains, people watch at a sidewalk cafe, build a snowman - I like to get out and try new things.
Maybe later you and I can play in the kitchen while we make dinner...
I've been to Ireland twice now- I loved everything about it! This year I am hoping to go again, and possibly to Spain, France and England! Next year I'm hoping France, Italy and Greece. Look out world!!