Lunch is always nice and not too formal, I would say go to coffee, but I don't drink coffee, or tea. But I do drink cocktails. Cocktails at lunch remind me of Breakfast at Tiffany's . However, I don't have a great up do or string of pearls.

This is the pick me question. I hate pick me questions, why are you the best candidate for the job, frankly, I am probably not...but I might be an interesting candidate for the job. Oh hell, I am skipping this question. I would love to actually say that in a job interview. Blankly stare at someone, and say I might be the most interesting candidate, but then again I might not. Okay I couldn't stop myself, because I am so damn irritated with this question.

To know myself and be clear with boundaries, expectations and needs. Relationships are an ordeal and need to be entered into with consciousness and responsibility. There are wonderful rewards in a relationship and relationships are worth the effort when both parties agree to the effort. Relationships are not entertainment or a cure for loneliness. Relationships are sacred and holy ground for two people.

Being available to support my children and grandchildren. Parenting doesn't end when children turn 18 as matter of fact they are finally interesting functioning human beings. My books, my writing time. Long discussions on books read, ideas formed, new ways to think, feel or to be. Walking with my best friend. My life is a quiet, because I am mildly introverted. The quietness of my life is very important to me.

I live my perfect day every day. Every days unfolds moment by moment revealing its mystery. Whatever shows up in the mystery is my perfect day, I don't want a fantasy day. I want life as it unfolds. This day only comes this way....once in a life time. It is perfect!

Don't be fooled when you meet me, though I am an introvert, I can easily handle social situations with grace and ease. I love being home, I love being in my environment where I spend my time contemplating and reflecting. Home is heaven to me. I don't do well with endless activity, I choose my activities wisely. I believe in the equal to paradigm. Your needs are equal to my needs, not less than, not more than equal too.