I feel having a few drinks first and then lunch or dinner, should things go well.

Getting to know me; because I do have so much to offer than most and it may take TWO dates for that chemistry to click. Sometimes it happens on the first date as well too! If you are the one, you'll be amazed of how great a person I am. It's a shame, one did not give me that chance. (They didn't know how to communicate and smashed me to the ground like a piece of glass, only to get myself up-.. wipe my knees and wipe my OWN tears, to get on with my life..even stronger. And I have a forgiving heart...)
But I can be silly, I care for others, I donate a lot, I love helping strangers & of course my neighbors. You will see I have more respect for you than others and care about your day and care about how you feel even when you are sick. I love thunderstorms at nite sitting with candles or in the middle of the nite having you hold me when its so loud and scary. I will make sure I say good bye when you leave for work and say hello when you return and ask how your day was. I like sharing coffee together in the mornings. I like coming to you for advice and will take it sincerely. I'm not a yeller or snap back at you, thats not my nature. I give my word and honor it always, and expect it in return, we are a team.

To see if you are a good communicator. Sometimes reading ones profile and to see how he expresses himself deeply, is special. He can open up. I don't like messages that say they are interested, don't write much and then they never plan a date. Also, I don't like seeing someone once or twice a month, because they are busy. And..don't make plans with me on the phone and then just turn around and cancel them for what ever your excuse was. Then there are some that have no pride: their vehicle is filthy in and out, your dress code was from the thrift store: on the first two dates!! (the second date was a chance for improvement) There was no third date.
So, I know what I want and what I don't want. And I will weed you out. Looking for pride and class.

Yes, of course our kids. But, there's respect. How you and I treat each other and the public. Listening to what each other needs, or wants. Then there's trust. To know YOU won't lie or white lie, or let another woman come into our circle. Allow me to be 'me'. I accept you for who you are, and, I don't need 'time alone' or 'space'. You must drink coffee in the mornings, and occasional drinking. If not, we may not match.

Saying good-bye in the morning with a sensuous flirt, and same as you come home. If we spend the day together, than just that look, with a smile says it all. On our day off, hit the snooze, cuddle. Hit the snooze, cuddle. Hit the snooze, cuddle, ..hehe! At the end of the day, ready to call it a nite, taking a big deep breath, and knowing I'm with you!

I'm not a clingy person, I don't like being alone a lot, but I love your company. (At times I really don't mind being alone.) I don't hang out with my friends much (rarely), just once in a blue moon - or join me too.